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Making a baby from scratch is hard work. It’s complicated. There are a lot of right ways to do it….like eating good food, exercising, and practicing the super-instinctive need to nest.
Of course, this usually depends on your budget. Or what you can rearrange within your budget to boost your ‘pregnancy’ budget a little. But thanks to the interwebs, there is no reason you can’t gather a little pregnancy ‘wish list’ together before you can purchase everything on it. And just the listing of these items can help you prioritize and prepare you to recognize the best stuff at those mega-kids-consignments you come across at the YMCA every now and again.
For some reason, it feels like being pregnant gives me this insatiable desire to spend money. Lots and lots of money. I want to buy organic crackers for the nausea, and that really cool glass-bottled ginger ale. I want to buy a copper tea pot for making my pregnancy tea, and probably some vintage coffee cups to drink from. And then a white couch with an old afghan to sip my tea on.
Next comes the clothes. I’ve had it with cheap maternity jeans. They suck. And they make your butt look misshapen at this time in your womanhood when you could most use a good-to-normal looking butt. So this time, I want to invest in some 7 for all mankind maternity jeans. And I know they’re $200.
Then yesterday I got on Amazon and racked up a few more books/dvds for my wish list. The National Geographic ‘In the Womb’ dvd is ahhhh-mazing. I think Isaiah could appreciate it now. And then there’s all the cute kids books about ‘we’re having a baby!’ and ‘I’m a big brother.’
See what I mean? And I love to do all this virtual “shopping” from the comfort of my own home, right here on my little mac. It feels extra “nesty” to stay in my nest while gathering all the little comforts around me that I need to make it better.
So maybe it’s not that I want to spend a lot of money, per say, it’s just that I want to gather. Rearrange. Put this stick here and that piece of straw there and another feather under my butt. Because I’m making a baby, and this ain’t easy. But it’s the best job I’ve ever had, the most responsibility, and the most rewarding. Okay and I do like to shop. And adding another person to the family makes for a pretty good reason to do so.